I don't even with the first few pages of this thread. Both sides downvoted into oblivion.
I'm gonna watch the vid when I'm not in class, but seriously the amount of people from these forums that are cool at first then hop into Vent with me and spaz that I'm female is annoying. I'm not f*cking announcing it to the world, if you wanna get into vent be prepared for anything.
I agree with a lot of people though (in fairness however I also don't really care but this is part of the problem) that the norm should not be to expect to be treated like trash by garbage people on the internet.
I've caught my friends doing it sometimes, and even myself (and ain't it a b*tch when you catch yourself doing something you hate) I get a lot of "does (friend) wanna come? I don't wanna deal with a ****** random this match." from my friends, and I've even noticed myself going "Dude, what did you expect, its the RANDOM." When the player not in our voice chat starts screwing up.
Getting treated poorly shouldn't be what we expect. But it is. And that is what OP is saying is the problem.
Edit: Holy bananas Batman, I was wondering why there was no Red Posts on a thread like this, mind ninja'd. O_o