I dunno...maybe if you quoted some Gladiator I could let you into the BFFs group. Seriously, that is one movie I will never get tired of.
"My name is Maximus Decimus Meridius, commander of the armies of the north, general of the phalanx legions, loyal servant to the true emperor Marcus Aurelis. Father to a murdered son, husband to a murdered wife, I will have my vengeance, in this life or the next."
A silent death lies waiting, for all of you below
Running silent,running deep,sink into your silent sleep
Now you know me and spoilers, but because of your word choice I will show that I am a nice man, with happy feelings, all of the time. The spoiler is... your word choice. With those words in mind, take a look at chapters 5 and 6, how she treats them and how they treat her and the end result.
(I know that's somewhat cryptic, and mean of me to make you go back and reread stuff =p, but I really don't like giving out direct spoilers.)