NOTE 1: I don't have ELO to back me up. My ranks still climbing, but I still have wisdom to share, and I do play with many high-ELO friends. I've written a book about League, and I run my own business as a life-coach.
I share what I've learned here aimed to help others. I offer people Fresh, Creative Ideas they may not have heard. I offer a chance to EXPERIMENT and potentially IMPROVE your game EXPERIENCE.
I know you can appreciate the time it took to write, and I trust you'll be gentle and kind.
But, hey... if you gotta hate, or take sides, or pick fights -- best of luck to ya, I'm sure it'll take you far in life 
NOTE 2: Like my other Solo Q “Secrets”, these are just my own experiences, and conclusions I’ve discovered. I’m a human being, I’m sharing things I feel will help others. They are SUGGESTED EXPERIMENTS.
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[Solo Q Secrets #001] Surrendering Wins Games
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The Story: You join solo queue, and the pre-game chat is pretty grim, but you’ve already dodged once and don’t wanna do it again. So you get into game with these negative peeps. You make the best of it. You’re playing your heart out, you’re trying to communicate and help the team, but things just keep going badly. The chats filled with *****ing and moaning and people blaming each other. Meanwhile, your opponents are steam-rolling you, getting fed, and playing like they’re friends on Skype or something. You vote to surrender. 2 others agree with you, and they just want to move on with their lives. Ah, but here’s the thing, the remaining two players are try-hards who ignore you and keep voting no. So because of two “bad apples”, 3 people must remain imprisoned in a miserable, unbalanbed, losing battle. So the game ends up being 60mins of misery and low morale. Sucks right? Now imagine this happens 3 games in a row. You’ve just wasted 3 hours of your life, playing something that wasn’t fun for more than 5-10 min. You also lost ELO for it. |
League Of Legends ranking system is pretty interesting, especially in solo queue.
Even the best, highest, most amazing players lose (EDIT: "only win", thanks Pogo :P) 55-65% of their games.
Eg: oRb LemonNation (avg wins 63%), Aphromoo (avg wins 54%), and AltecRu (avg wins 61%)
League Of Legends is kind of paper, rock, scissors-ish in solo queue.
Or kind of like poker, skill is involved, sure… but a certain kind of luck plays a big part.
I end up playing with people who rage and act like they deserve to win 100% of their games.
Are you as good as the pro players in the example above?
'Cause... they lose a lot of games.
NOT ONLY THAT – but there’s MANY pro games and tournaments with money on the line where all 5 members of the pro team which is losing… agrees to honorably surrender. They understand that life has matched them against an opponent so they can lose gracefully, and hit the training room.
They don’t WASTE TIME and ENERGY being ATTACHED to some clearly lost ‘cause, that is NOT worth DRAGGING OUT.
So… you’re going to lose a LOT of games, too.
And if everyone’s going to lose a big chunk of their matches, then what’s the point?
Well, pros benefit from those losses.
They take them well.
Ever watched Aphromoo stream? Or even a new streamer like Hafu?
High level players are pretty zen.
They laugh during games, have no problem chatting and joking, and most importantly...
...they barely rage, and they know when to surrender.
They lose well and often, and they succeed because of it.
What benefits can be found from all these losses?
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Well if you're friendly, co-operative, and surrender gracefully, there’s one major benefit… ...you increase your friends list. Yes, you lose the game. Yes you surrender 'early', but because of that, you meet more people and make more friends. You also have more fun. You only have so many minutes you can play league a day, and if you're creating misery and keeping people stuck in horribly losing situations just so you can prove you're right, and 'get the win', then you're spending hours of your time, in ****ty games. And increasing your friends list means you don’t have to play with unco-operative strangers, you can people who are fun and easy to get along with. You also get more practice. Just like above, if you surrender early, and play a fresh game you'll get way more practice at the early game, which is the most delicate part of league, because it sets up the victory -- instead of derping around late game waiting for your enemies to make some ridiculous mistake and hand you the victory you didn't even earn. |
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TL;DR?
(I applaud your attention span :P)
There are MASSIVE benefits to surrendering gracefully, if you've never tried it, EXPERIMENT. Give it a shot, it may improve your game experience.
Thanks for reading

UPDATE:
To be clear, very clear -- I'm not saying you HAVE to surrender, and I'm not saying you HAVE to keep playing.
I'm saying Do What Works For You, but you may want to join my Graceful Surrender Experiment.
Sheesh! lol

Like this? Read more of the series:
[Solo Q Secrets #001] Surrendering Wins Games
[Solo Q Secrets #002] Boring S*** Gets You Kills
[Solo Q Secrets #003] The Skills Of Strangers (Or... Not)
[Solo Q Secrets #004] ELOs Like Money - Use It Wisely
[Solo Q Secrets #005] P-P-P-P-P-Pokerface.
[Solo Q Secrets #006] Breathe In (The Soul-Crushing Defeat)
[Solo Q Secrets #007] Clash Of The Titans … Personalities
[Solo Q Secrets #008] Kills, Kills, Kills… Using Smart Aggression Secrets
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Ime they would be the mvps that ive been looking for throughout this whole community. The self loathing insults from the inner fronts of teams ultimately self troll/pwn themselves to defeat by default ( ex. ww2:fall of France).