that's all fine and dandy except that's not what's going on here.
It's like an extreme version of the white knight syndrome common with gamers
It's a bunch of guys with some mentality like all the female characters should be wearing business suits and the male characters need to be the scantily clad sexualized characters.
An actual feminist wouldn't be hard line against pole dancing as one example since a lot of woman do it for their own enjoyment and get a sense of sexual empowerment from the workout you get from it but they would be against a gentlemen's club(since that's what this is about i would assume)