There are situations where its perfectly fine for the host to get their friends into the game. However, almost every time this is the case and I'm on the other team the hosts friends is taking the longest **** ever or writing a god dam thesis. If your friend is gonna take more than 5 minutes to get in the game, **** off with that ****. I just leave these games after a while, but sometimes its a bit difficult to find and get a game started. If you have to kick more than 5-10 people before you friend gets in, your friend is slow and inconsiderate.