Your real problem, you get defensive when people tell you that you're wrong and immediately get aggressive and insult them back, or adopt the "idgaf" approach, when you obviously do or you wouldn't be here in the first place.
1st lesson of life, No one cares when you fail, we just care when you act like a jerk and blame others for your own shortcomings.
Edit: You dont get reported for not warding enough, you get reported for how you act in response to that. If you don't like what you hear, just pretend to have not heard it. And then buy a ward, just to make your team happy.