im having a hard time figuring out where she should go.
bot, jungle or top?

she's a pretty good pick top but thats it worthless anywhere else easily countered by anyone with a blind/bind

i can see why top would be best choice... only good at 1v1 and hes no escape :/

Top only.

She gets destroyed mid, and she gets kited at bot so she can't farm. In the jungle she is a good duelist, but she is a terrible control jungler. She would only be good for buff stealing, and even for that she is bad

In my honest opinion, she doesn't have a place anywhere in the current meta.

If you can take lane control top she dominates it with sustain and high damage.