Not to sound harsh, but I'm going to tell you what I always tell these sorts of posts and that is...
PLAY THE FREEKING CHAMPIONS
All in all the champion that you'll like more is going to depend on your tastes as a player, if you'd like a rundown on the two champs here you go...
Graves is the closest thing to a fighter you're going to get in a ranged carry...
-Stupidly tanky for a carry...
-Crazy burst damage (Through Quickdraw and Buckshot)
-Decent Kiting
-Solid damage scaling (He's a carry, duhh)
Kog maw on the other hand is quite a bit different, he requires some feed (And some skill to get it) but once he gets fed... it's GG...
-A little tricky to learn and play
-Excellent Kiting
-Stupidly strong damage Scaling (Has wicky nasty tank-busting potential)
-More sustained damage than burst damage, but it can be delived at a very long range.
More people should post to help you out, I'm not a super avid ADC player, so more helpful tips will come I'm sure. Go ahead and see if you can grab one of these guys to try out, and see who you really want to buy. GLHF, and ask any other questions you have...